I love traveling with only a hand luggage. That teaches me to practice the art of minimalism.
When I can take a big suitcase, I usually throw in lots of things, hoping that they will work. Often I would end up with some pieces that I would never use on a trip. With the hand luggage and a week-long trip, I cannot thoughtlessly stuff in clothes. I need to choose, make combos and use my brain. When I pack then my carry-on, I end up with things I ultimately love. Just the best clothes, my favorite jewelry and simple solutions. I love simple solutions! And such packing makes me think about how I want to live my life.
When I go out of my home, with my carry-on, I feel light and free. And in these moments I realize: this is how I want to live my life. Light and free.
I could never call myself a minimalist. I jokingly admitted that I was a maximalist. And a Soviet child in me abhorred the idea of living with less things. I grew up with very few things! I wanted more – not less. More is more.
Well then, “more is more” it will be. I had to go through that experience too. I did my share of buying stuff, of getting a wardrobe overflow and mess (while at the same time, sighing that I have nothing to wear 😆). Now I want to change my course.
I want my life to be like my carry-on luggage. Only best things, only the most favorite ones. Real love – instead of just real stuff. I want few but quality products, quality experiences, my favorite people. To do the things I love, to meet people I love, to own clothes and jewelry I love.
Maybe, this is a sign of getting older – and I am ok with it. There was this idea on my favorite podcast “The good life project”: “When people are young, they do a lot of things and go to a lot of parties. But it often happens that you go to a party, meet 20 new people. 10 are boring, 5 are weird, 2 are freaks, and only 3 are worth a second chance. The youth have to search, sift through and find what works for them. The older people don’t do it – because they have found what works for them. They have three people in their life – but they are the best ones. The older people do the things they love, meet the people they love and don’t need going to hundred of parties”.
Maybe, it’s not true for everyone. Maybe, you are that kind of older person who loves partying and meeting new people 😉. But I love this ability of getting more quality-conscious with age. Getting older is not bad, really! If it lets you create the life with better quality and the things you love, leaving the rest behind.
This point sheds a new light on the idea of minimalism. It is not about restricting myself. It is about creating better quality. In all I have and do. In clothes, at home, at how I spend my time. In my relationships, hobbies, vacations.
I am ready to explore this side of minimalism. Not the ascetic one, but the one that lets me sift out the real luxury.
Because I don’t want much. I just want the best 😆 I want to pack lightly and travel lightly. In all kind of senses.
What kind of luggage packer are you? How do you like to travel? And how has your attitude changed through years?
Ultimately, it is about your happiness Marina. I’m sure being a minimalist helps. There are others who travel with just a pair of clothes and buy cheap ones at the destination. And then they discard before departure. 🙂
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It is, it is! I have heard stories of people traveling to Thailand with only few things, shopping there and leaving there too. Sounds good but I would not set this into system, not too eco-friendly if everyone will start this. Though with the modern textile industry, what is eco-friendly? 😆
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Correct. Also, it works where things are cheap and not everywhere.
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Which is not many places 😆
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I see what you mean and I could use some of the same advice (because I pack everything I own since I love to have choices), but I must ask you to send over the five weird ones plus both freaks. That’s my people. 😀
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Haha, got it! Your people are waiting 😉 come and join me in the party! 😆
(Btw, I am partying now in your neighbor country, Croatia)
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Oooo, the best time to visit! Everybody is super happy and friendly right now. 😀 We watched the game yesterday here in Tuscany (no Italy or Slovenia competing this year) and they were indeed a much better team. Živeli! (=cheers) Are you on one of the islands? I love Korčula, Hvar, Pelješac peninsula but and many others as well.
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Yes, they are happy)) A bit rainy but nice.
I am on the salsa festival in Rovinj. My favorite town in Croatia (not that I know many ;)). Full of dancers from all over the world 💃🏻💃🏻
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Excellent! Rovinj is so close to Slovenia. 🙂 I’m coming to Slovenia in two days. Come on a visit to Ljubljana! 😉
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Oh, sorry for late reply! Belated thanks for the invitation but my festival program was so packed that I hardly found time to see Rovinj. Even less to travel outside 😆 I hope to see Ljublana once, imagine it to be a very nice place.
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It is but I recommend a spring visit. Right now it’s humid and stormy and covered and fuuuuulll of tourists. Going to Piran on the coast in a few days.
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Thank you for recommendation! Yepp, Rovinj was just the same: stormy, humid, tourists, hehe. Even Oslo had better weather, more sun and warmer evenings. Can you imagine it??? Oslo beating them all, haha.
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Truly astonishing. 😮
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I pack light. I once went to Greece for 5 months with just my hand luggage, and it was enough (summer clothes take up little space, cosmetics you can buy there and use up…) But like you, I don’t want a lot, just the best! 😀
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5 months and a hand luggage? You are my hero now 🙌😆 I am proud when I can make 2 weeks ( now in Croatia with big suitcase and no desire to shop in this little but lovely place. Just dance 💃🏻)
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Enjoy the salsa and yoga!!! It must be so fun, I can jus imagine!!
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Just salsa this time, no yoga! I have did my best at enjoying and now am back. To Oslo and to blogging. These two weeks were a blast! 🎉🎉💃🏻
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Oooh, lucky you!! 🙂 Looking forward to the blog post!
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I was really lucky!!! The post is out there, full of the good vibes I could take with me home 🙂
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I have always dreamed of living my life out of one suitcase! My biggest problem is that I find different nick knacks around my house “valuable” with the memories I have associated with them. What do you do to declutter and live a more minimalistic life?
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Oh yes, though one suitcase would be too ambitious for me)) But it would be a nice experience 😊
I have been good at decluttering because my life made me so 😆 I have moved many times around Europe and around Oslo. That always calls for minimalism)) I has to say goodbye to many memories. And I think that I don’t need all of them with me. Sometimes life is lighter without all of them.
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